Pathological liar signs3/13/2023 ![]() He disrespects your boundaries.īoundaries are guidelines, rules or limits that a person creates to identify for herself what are reasonable, safe and permissible ways for other people to behave around her and how she will respond when someone steps outside those limits. You apologize and forgive quickly, otherwise, you know he’ll lose interest in you. Any of your attempts to improve communication will typically result in the silent treatment. Normal couples argue to resolve issues, but toxic men make it clear that negative conversations will jeopardize the relationship, especially conversations regarding their bad behavior. His relationship with those other people is superficial and that is why they don’t see what you see in him! 11. You begin to fear expressing your feelings. You’re the only one engaged in an intimate relationship with him. Everyone around you thinks he walks on water.Įveryone but you! But there must be something wrong with you if you’re the only one questioning his values, morals, and sincerity. You’re seeking answers to questions and doubts you have that you just can quite explain. Or, maybe following him after work or driving by his home when you two aren’t together. But you’ve also learned to doubt your own gut feelings so, your turn yourself into a private investigator and start stalking him on social media. He has been caught in enough lies that you’ve finally gotten to the point of believing nothing he says. Your gut is constantly telling you to investigate. He has projected his feelings of shame, guilt or desire for someone else off onto you because subconsciously he knows it’s wrong but can’t emotionally face that in himself. In reality, it is him who may be having an affair or thinking about an affair or, attracted to someone other than you. Psychologist and psychiatrists called this “projection.” Projection is a psychological defense mechanism in which he attributes characteristics he finds unacceptable in himself to another person…you.įor example, he may accuse you of wanting to have an affair or being attracted to a close friend or ex. He will dismiss your true feelings and assign you feelings that most often mimic what he is feeling. You’re only there because you were the first of fifth he found to do his bidding. Anyone can give him what he needs…attention. ![]() In reality, this guy has no identity without you there to constantly build him up. His demand for adoration from you is insatiable. This guy wants all your attention, 24/7 your life is supposed to revolve around him. This guy is downright unmannerly, course and contemptible. You can tell him dinner is promptly at 8:00 and he will show at 9:00. He doesn’t respect your boundaries, your career or, your desire to go to the bathroom without an audience. He won’t respect your need for time alone or time with family and friends. The toxic man is childlike in his ability to grasp the concept of not only receiving respect but returning it. Normal people understand fundamental concepts like honesty and kindness. He, on the other hand, can do no wrong and you better not forget that. He will expect you to be remorseful and to make changes as he sees fit. Your mistakes will be brought to your attention. This guy needs you to be perfect and to view him as perfect in spite of his bad behavior. He focuses on your mistakes but ignores his own.
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